every now and then I return here on friendica to try and see if I like it as much as sharkey, not feeling any particular difference.
i'm realising the question is wrong-worded: basically the contents are the same, as long as I can follow the same ppl in both (or all three, if we want to add my Mastodon profile currently in standby), so it's only a matter of ui/ux and features on my end? Probably I think. And this is pretty much the good thing of the Fediverse, in theory; the bad thing is that the way this is delivered AND communicated outside of the fedi clique is not always the best imho

Couple days ago a friend managed to (MAYBE) comprehensibly explain me how federation btw instances works, and it kinda doesn't feel that optimal, or basically good. And, notwithstanding all the hashtags, antennas, or any other stuff, I still can't find a quick, simple way to tailor my feed; I understand the control etc but there must be a way to keep control of my presence while not having to spend a week to set it up -and see it doesn't work-.