If you're a man who dates women, I thoroughly recommend reading this! (I mean, I recommend it regardless, tbh, because I think @girlonthenet is incredibly insightful about common current gendered dating dynamics.)
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Why did I get rejected?
One of the things I often hear guys complain about when it comes to dating is that they got rejected (or sometimes ghosted) without understanding why.Girl on the net (Girl on the Net)
Max - Poliverso 🇪🇺🇮🇹
in reply to Quinn Rhodes (he/him) • •@Quinn Rhodes (he/him) @Girl on the Net
I've been on Meetic first and then on Tinder.
My privilege, as a man, is that I'm not exposed to threats, I never felt endangered, while a woman also have to cope with that.
This being said, I think that whoever uses dating apps can tell stories about how ridiculously (to say the least) people behave over there.
Dating apps are the place to be if you really want to have a look at humankind from the inside, and most of time that's disheartening.
I could tell you about many women I met on dating apps that (in my opinion) should be sent to a crash course on manners.
Everyone has their own cross to bear... 🙂
Quinn Rhodes (he/him)
in reply to Max - Poliverso 🇪🇺🇮🇹 • • •Girl on the Net
in reply to Quinn Rhodes (he/him) • • •Max - Poliverso 🇪🇺🇮🇹
in reply to Girl on the Net • •@Girl on the Net @Quinn Rhodes (he/him)
I just wanted to say that: dating is difficult for everybody.
Even if your post is not about how difficult is dating for you, in what I read I could also find the description of some difficult passages in your dating experience and I was just expressing my solidarity for that.
I didn't mean to say "come on, stop complaining we're all into that" it was like "I know it's not easy being nice and polite, I've also the same troubles, keep it up".